The Best Meh Dai Carrier 2020

Best Meh Dai Carrier 2020

Last Updated: Apr 5, 2020 @ 2:01 pmThe Best Meh Dai Carrier 2020. After comparing and testing dozens of meh dai (mei tai) carriers, we have chosen the Moby Buckle Tie as the best meh dai (mei tai) carrier.

New to carrier shopping for baby’s room? Read our 7 Things No One Tells You About Buying a Carrier for advice and tips.

What makes Moby’s Buckle Tie different from other meh dai (mei tai) carriers? Flexibility. Buckle Ties are easier to adjust and use than traditional meh dai carriers. The Buckle Ties come in many cute patterns and fit babies from 15 to 45 lbs. Prices are reasonable too.

FYI: For many years, an Asian-inspired carrier was called “mei tai”. In the past year, several carrier companies started referring to these carriers as meh dais, which is apparently a more accurate Cantonese translation. We’ve also seen it spelled “bei dai” (which is a Mandarin translation) In this review, we use both mei tai and meh dai.

The Best Meh Dai Carrier

Moby Buckle Tie Meh Dai

The Moby Buckle Tie offers all the convenience of an infinitely adjustable meh dai with cool fabrics and easy to use buckles instead of ties. Prices are affordable too.

Also Great

CatBird Baby Meh Dai (Mei Tai) Carrier

Catbird Baby makes our top pick for best traditional tie Meh Dai. If you prefer the infinite adjustment of a traditional design, Catbird Baby offers excellent quality and durability.

Also Great: CatBird Baby Meh Dai

Catbird Baby manufactures one of our favorite front carriers, the Pikkolo, so we were excited to see they added a meh dai option a few years ago. Priced affordably, this is a great choice for parents who want carrier flexibility.

You can use the Catbird meh dai in four positions including front carry forward facing (see below for videos of different carrying positions). For parents with older, heavier babies, Catbird sells a support belt ($25) to make it more comfortable. In fact, this is our only complaint about the brand: it would be nice if the support belt came with the meh dai.

Despite this minor quibble, readers give the Catbird Baby excellent reviews and the reasonable price leads us to rate them highly. Yes, meh dai carriers do have a bit of a learning curve—here are a couple of videos that show you how to use and adjust Catbird Baby carriers . . .  so you get a taste of what it requires!

Why Trust Us

We’ve been rating and reviewing mei tais since 2005. In addition to hands on testing of these baby carriers, we have combed the research about ease of use and comfort. We also evaluate consumer reviews posted on sites like Amazon, as well as our own message boards.

Here’s another key point: we don’t take money from the brands we review. No free samples, no sponsors, no “partnerships.” Baby Bargains is your independent and unbiased source for expert baby gear reviews. We’ve been writing and reviewing baby gear since 1994. Yes, that long!

How we picked a winner

BabyHawk mei tai carrier We evaluate mei tai carriers with in-depth inspections, trying on different models with different size kids to gauge overall quality and ease of use. We also gather significant reader feedback (our book, Baby Bargains has over 1 million copies in print), tracking carriers on quality and durability. Besides interviewing parents, we also regularly talk with retailers and health care experts to see which brands are most trustworthy and other key quality metrics.


7 Things No One Tells You About . . .

7 Things No One Tells You About Buying A Baby Carrier!

1. Wait! There are THAT many different types of carriers?

Do you want a soft structured carrier? For infants or extended use? What about slings? What the heck is a Mei Tai? A rum-based drink from Hawaii?

Ok, let’s take a deep breath. Carriers come in a variety of types. Let’s review:

• Front carriers (AKA Soft Structured Carriers or SSC) are the most well-known and popular of all the carrier types. The 800-pound gorilla in this category is the Baby Bjorn, which is Sweden’s most successful export since ABBA.

Front carriers basically are designed like a fabric pouch worn on your chest with straps connecting at the shoulders and waist with buckles or snaps. These type of carriers are made for infants up to around 30 pounds although some hybrids like the Boba 4G can carry older kids up to 45 lbs. Nowadays, soft structured carriers are more flexible, allowing baby to be carried on your back and hip as well as in front.


Baby Bjorn OneThe Baby Bjorn One is one of the top selling soft structured front carriers.


• A sub category of front carriers is the mei tai (meh dai), or Asian carrier. Inspired by carriers used in Asia (particularly China), mei tais have an unstructured body and are tied on rather than buckled. This allows for infinite adjustment.


Moby Buckle Tie meh dai

Moby makes one of the best mei tai carriers on the market.


• Slings and pouches (which are unstructured carriers) have been around for centuries. These carriers are basically pockets of fabric that can be adjusted with a ring or velcro. Babies can recline in slings or sit upright once they’re old enough. Most slings and pouches are only rated up to 35 lbs., so they are more appropriate for infants.


Maya Wrap Ring Sling


Maya Wrap Ring Slings come in both padded and unpadded versions.


• Wrap around carriers are one long piece of cloth that is twisted and folded to create a pouch for baby. Typically the fabric has some stretch to it. This type of carrier has the steepest learning curve for parents. Most designs are intended for smaller, younger babies up to 35 lbs.


Wrapsody Breeze Baby Wrap


Wrapsody’s Breeze baby wrap is lightweight and can be easily adjusted to fit anyone.


• Backpack or frame carriers are designed for hiking with lightweight aluminum frames, high quality waterproof fabrics and ergonomically designed straps. Many include sunshades, lots of storage and adjustable seating as baby grows. Here's an example from Deuter:

Deuter Kid Comfort Pro - Child Carrier Backpack

2. Think about how long you envision using a carrier.

The most common baby carriers (Baby Bjorn Original, for example) are designed for use up 25 lbs. The average boy would reach this weight around 18 months (girls a few months after that). Other carriers aim for extended use, up to 30 or even 45 pounds (that’s a three or four old). Our advice: there is no right or wrong answer to this question. Perhaps you only envision using a carrier in baby's first year. If extended baby wearing is something you’d like to try, you’ll need to focus on brands with higher weight limits, like ERGObaby, Boba, Beco and so on.

3. Just because you love a carrier doesn’t mean you baby will.

That's right—some babies can be darn right fussy about carriers. Your baby may love carrier A but hate style B, so hang on to your receipt (or buy from a source with a good return policy). Every baby is different, so a carrier that works for your sister-in-law may induce screaming fits from your baby. Some moms actually buy a couple types of carriers to see what works, then return the ones that don’t.

4. Baby wearing looks simple, but be aware of these key safety precautions.

Back in 2010, the Consumer Product Safety Commission issued these baby wearing tips:

  • Premature infants and those with low birth weight (under 7 lbs., including twins or infants with breathing issues such as a cold) should not be placed in a sling.
  • Make sure the infant’s face is not covered and can be seat at all times regardless of the type of carrier you’re using.
  • Frequently check on your baby to make sure he is breathing.

Check the graphic to see how to correctly and incorrectly wear your baby:

CPSC Babywearing Graphic


5. Some carriers have a steep learning curve.

An example: wraps. These long pieces of fabric need to be wrapped surprisingly tight to keep baby in the proper position and support a parent’s back. This can take some practice.


Tying a Boba wrapWraps are difficult to learn at first, so check the instructions and videos for tips and help.
Even some soft structured carriers have lots of buckles, Velcro and adjustments that can get complicated.

Yes, slings are the easiest carrier to use, but still may require a little practice. Make sure you read the directions, watch instructional videos online and practice before you try your carrier with an actual baby. The first few times, you may want to have a second person handy to help you get all the adjustments correct.

6. Cheap carriers come with a hidden cost.

Yes, there are $15 baby carriers at discount stores. What’s the difference between this and our recommended carriers, which run about $150-$200?

A truth about carriers: a cheap carrier is no bargain if it hurts your back or is uncomfortably hot. And sadly, those $15 carriers score low on parent happiness, according to the many interviews we've done over the years with parents.

When purchasing a carrier, investing more money buys comfort and ease of use. For example, the fabric is softer when you spend more and the padding is thicker. Often hook and loop closures are industrial strength (Velcro vs. Aplix, for example) with more pricey carriers.

Deluxe slings may come with padded side rails and more expensive back pack carriers may have toddler stirrups to help older kids sit up comfortably.

7. Optional accessories are often worth the price.

Drool bibs that attach to carrier, sunshades for backpack carriers, extra long straps to fit a spouse—all worthy extras! One of our faves: teething pads for the ERGObaby carriers. Love ‘em.


Teething pads for ERGObaby carriersTeething pads for the ERGObaby carrier run and extra $20.

Organic fabric certifications: it's more than just a label

There are three international organizations that test and certify textiles. These are OEKO-TEX, Global Organic Textile Standard (GOTS) and IVN Naturextil. All three of these certifications are optional—there is no legal standard for organic, non-allergenic, chemical free textiles in the US. Many of the companies that are certified are European, with only a few US brands certified. Here’s a bit about each of the three organizations.

1. OEKO-TEX is a German organization that offers a Standard 100 certification program for textiles at all steps in the manufacturing process. Here’s a direct quote from the Oeko-Tex web site:

“Products marked with the label ‘Confidence in textiles (Standard 100)’ provide effective protection against allergenic substances, formaldehyde, heavy metals such as nickel or for example forbidden plasticizers (phthalates) in baby textiles.”

OEKO-TEX offers a second certification called Green by OEKO-TEX, which means the “materials (were) tested for harmful substances,” the product was “made in environmentally friendly facilities” and it was “made in safe and socially responsible workplaces.”


2. GOTS (Global Organic Textile Standard) certifies textiles as organic. To meet their qualifications, “Only textile products that contain a minimum of 70% organic fibres can become GOTS certified. All chemical inputs such as dyestuffs and auxiliaries used must meet certain environmental and toxicological criteria. The choice of accessories is limited in accordance with ecological aspects as well. A functional waste water treatment plant is mandatory for any wet-processing unit involved and all processors must comply with minimum social criteria.” Basically, beyond using organic materials, companies must also be socially responsible to their workers and the community.

GOTS logo

3. Textile Exchange. Previously referred to as the Organic Exchange (OE) Standard, the international Textile Exchange certifies textiles according to their Organic Content Standard (OCS). They verify the steps in the supply chain to make certain the materials used in end products like diapers are sustainably sourced/grown, processed and manufactured.

Textile Exchange Logo

There are only a few carrier manufacturers we can find with one of these international certifications. These companies typically sell both conventionally grown textiles as well as organic, so you’ll need to refer to specific organic models to get certified textiles:

Reviews of Meh Dai Carriers

The Best Meh Dai Carrier

Moby Buckle Tie Meh Dai

The Moby Buckle Tie offers all the convenience of an infinitely adjustable meh dai with cool fabrics and easy to use buckles instead of ties. Prices are affordable too.

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